The Power of Choice: Appreciating Adult Friendships and Moments Worth Remembering

"I am humbled that people found me significant enough in their lives to take the time to speak with me through my Moments Worth Remembering book."

Last week, I had a conversation with Jessica Suzanne Dugas on the Moments Worth Remembering podcast to talk about the importance of friendships in adulthood, as well as her reaction to receiving her, “Moments Worth Remembering” book.

As Jessica shared her thoughts about the profound impact people have had on her life, it got me thinking about the differences between how friendships are formed as kids compared to adults.

Instantly, I recalled moments from childhood when I sat at the dinner table, writing thank you cards to express my appreciation after being invited to friends' birthday parties. This habit had been instilled by my parents, who emphasized the value of showing gratitude.

Admittedly, there were times when I didn't always want to write those thank you cards. Playing basketball or video games often seemed more enticing.

But, I did it anyway.

Now, as an adult, it struck me that there's no one reminding me to express my appreciation for the friendships in my life.

This realization helped me understand why receiving these Moments Worth Remembering books is such a gift.

It shows that people have taken the time out of their busy lives to share something meaningful about the bonds they share with the recipient.

One significant lesson I've learned about friendships in adulthood is the element of choice.

Jessica posed an interesting question to me during our conversation, asking about the difference between childhood and adult friendships.

I responded with, “It’s all about choice.”

In my younger years, I often didn't feel I had much say in who my friends were.

It was often times based on proximity, shared classes, or even the need to avoid bullies.

But now, as adults, I am realizing that it's entirely my decision whom I surround myself with.

Whether we openly acknowledge it or not, I believe that we do become the products of our environment, shaped by the people we choose to have in our lives.

People have the power to influence our lives in ways we might never have imagined (negative or positive).

Remember to express your gratitude and appreciation for the friends who have chosen to be a part of your life.